Why Am I Feeling Stuck Despite Doing Everything Right?

Written by Neha Singla | Akashic Mentor | Healer | Human First

 
Why Am I Feeling Stuck Despite Doing Everything Right?
                                                                Why Am I Feeling Stuck Despite Doing Everything Right? — By Neha Singla

“I meditate, I journal, I manifest, I’ve healed my inner child, I’ve done therapy, I’m taking action… still, I feel stuck. What am I missing, Neha?”

This was the exact question a beautiful soul asked me in a 1:1 Akashic Session.

And you know what? I get this question a lot.

In fact, if I had a coin for every time someone said, “I’m doing everything right, but life still feels wrong,” I’d probably have enough to fund a free Akashic Reading retreat (manifesting this, btw).

So if you’re reading this — let’s treat it like a mini-session. Just you and me. Let’s breathe, be brutally honest, and go deep.

First, Let Me Tell You Something You May Not Want to Hear:

Doing all the right things doesn’t guarantee soul alignment.

Because healing is not a checklist.

You can be ticking off all the “growth” boxes:

  • Vision boarding every full moon
  • Reading one self-help book per month
  • Listening to spiritual podcasts
  • Eating clean
  • Journaling like you’re publishing your memoirs

…and STILL feel disconnected, confused, unseen, and like you’re missing something.

Why?

Because the truth is:

Growth doesn’t always mean forward. Sometimes it means inward.

Let’s Get Honest: What Does “Stuck” Actually Feel Like?

Here’s what most of my clients describe:

  • You feel like you’re doing everything “right” but nothing changes
  • You’re questioning your purpose more than ever
  • You’re exhausted by your own overthinking
  • You don’t trust your intuition anymore
  • You keep hitting the same emotional wall
  • You feel guilty for even feeling stuck (because hey, your life is “not that bad”)

Sound familiar?

That’s not laziness or failure.

That’s a soul nudge.

That’s your inner GPS whispering:

“You’re not lost. You’re ready for a deeper layer.”

1. You Might Be Operating from Your Mind, Not Your Soul

Let me break it down: Your mind is trained to seek logic, linear steps, and tangible rewards.

Your soul is nonlinear. It doesn’t speak in to-do lists. It speaks in signs. Patterns. Energy. Pulls. Longings. Silence.

I had a client once — a brilliant corporate leader. She did therapy, she had a coach, she did shadow work… but STILL felt stuck.

In our Akashic Reading, what came through was this:

She was trying to heal and grow according to the rules of the system that created her wounds.

Mic drop, right?

When your healing becomes performance-driven… you stop hearing your soul.

2. You Might Be Trying to Skip the Void

Nobody likes the void. It’s that in-between space where you’ve outgrown who you were… but the new version of you isn’t fully formed yet.

We hate being here. Why? Because there’s no control. No guarantees. No validation.

So what do we do? We busy ourselves. We over-heal. We sign up for more courses. We try to “solve” our way out of the mystery.

But you can’t shortcut the void. Sometimes the most healing thing is to do nothing. To be. To sit in the discomfort and ask: What’s trying to die in me… so something new can be born?

3. You May Have Outgrown the Version of Healing You Started With

This is a big one.

You’re not the same person you were when you started your healing journey. Your tools must evolve too.

Inner child work helped you uncover patterns. But maybe now it’s time to stop re-parenting and start re-imagining. Therapy gave you insight. But maybe now it’s time to embody, not just understand.

This is where the Akashic Records often come in. Because they don’t just show you what happened… they show you why your soul chose to experience it.

4. Subconscious Programming Might Still Be Running the Show

Even if consciously you’re doing “everything right,” your subconscious might still be:

  • Afraid of being seen
  • Addicted to struggle
  • Believing love must be earned
  • Thinking success = sacrifice

And that part of you will quietly sabotage your progress. Not because it’s evil — but because it thinks it’s protecting you.

One of my clients kept hitting a block every time she reached a certain income level. In the Akashic Reading, we found a soul-level vow from a past life that said:

“If I have too much, others will suffer.”

Boom.

The energy shift after clearing that? Next-level.

5. You’re Trying to Heal Alone

This one might sting. But let’s go there.

Too many of us — especially high achievers — try to “DIY” our healing. We journal instead of asking for support. We binge content instead of investing in transformation. We hide behind being “independent” when what we really need is to be witnessed.

Let me remind you:

Your soul did not come here to be self-sufficient. It came to be sovereign and supported.

Sometimes we need a mirror. Sometimes we need someone to ask the question we’ve been avoiding. Sometimes we need someone to hold us while we unravel.

Real Talk: The Soul Doesn’t Care About Appearances

It doesn’t care how spiritual you look online. It doesn’t care if you’re journaling in a Moleskine. It doesn’t care if your IG is full of affirmations.

It cares about TRUTH. It cares about ALIGNMENT. It cares about DEPTH.

So if you’re stuck, maybe — just maybe — it’s your soul saying:

“Hey babe, you’re ready for the real work now.”

Try This: 5 Soul Questions to Reflect On

Ask yourself these — without overthinking:

  1. If no one was watching, what would I stop doing?
  2. If I wasn’t afraid, what would I start?
  3. What am I pretending not to know?
  4. What part of me feels abandoned by me?
  5. What would it look like to trust my timing fully?

Write. Pause. Breathe. Let the answers come

So… Is It Time for an Akashic Reading?

Only you know that.

But if you’re nodding, crying, or exhaling while reading this — maybe it’s not a coincidence. Maybe your soul is done being managed and finally wants to be heard.

Because Akashic Readings aren’t about “fixing.” They’re about remembering.

They show you soul-level truths. Patterns you didn’t even know were playing out. Vows and contracts that are still running. Gifts you’ve buried. Desires you’re scared to admit.

You don’t need another plan. You need a portal.

I’ve opened a few 1:1 Akashic Reading slots this week. If your soul feels ready… Know more about One on One Akashic Reading Session and Book your Slots.

 

No pressure. But if your body just softened reading that — that’s your answer.

Final Thought:

You’re not stuck. You’re not broken. You’re just standing at the edge of your next layer.

And you don’t have to leap alone.

With all my love and fire,

Neha Singla Founder | Magical Healings Akashic Mentor | Soul Journey Expert| Keeper of Real Talk

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