Why Is It So Much Easier to Be Vulnerable with a Stranger?- By Neha Singla
“Neha, I don’t know why, but I just told you things I’ve never told my best friend or even my partner. Why does this feel so safe with you?”
I can’t even count how many times I’ve heard this sentence in my 1:1 Akashic Reading sessions. Whether it’s a first-time client or a regular soul seeker, the common thread is always this: vulnerability flows more easily with someone who feels like a stranger but also like a mirror to your soul.
Today, we’re diving deep into why that happens and what it says about your inner world. And I promise, by the end of this blog, you’ll never look at vulnerability the same way again.
Let’s get real, let’s get raw — let’s get soul honest.
Part I: The Paradox of Vulnerability
We grow up being taught to not trust strangers. But we somehow end up telling our darkest secrets to Uber drivers, hairdressers, or spiritual coaches we’ve just met online.
Why? Because strangers carry no history, no expectations, and no lens of judgment formed by our past.
There is no emotional backlog. No hidden resentment. No old wounds between us.
So when someone like me — an Akashic Reader you maybe found through an Instagram post or Googled “Akashic Reader near me” — sits across from you energetically and listens with presence, your walls naturally melt.
And it’s not by chance. It’s because of:
- Emotional neutrality
- Energetic safety
- The sacred container of the Akashic Records
Part II: What Are You Really Protecting?
Let’s talk psychology for a second. We fear judgment most from people who are supposed to love us.
Think about it.
- You fear telling your mom about your anxiety because she may worry.
- You hold back from your partner about feeling unfulfilled because they might take it personally.
- You don’t share that you’re still grieving an ex with your friend because they’ve “heard it enough.”
But someone new? Someone trained to hold space?
You feel free.
Why? Because when you speak to someone who has no stake in your story, it’s like talking to the universe itself. And when that someone is an Akashic Reader, you’re not just being heard — you’re being soul-seen.
Part III: The Role of the Akashic Field in Vulnerability
The Akashic Records are often misunderstood as mystical or woo-woo, but let me break it down simply:
The Akashic Records are like a soul library. They hold your patterns, past lives, energetic blueprints, karmic contracts — and yes, your vulnerabilities.
When I, as your Akashic Reader, open your records, I don’t see your flaws. I see your journey.
And THAT is why vulnerability becomes effortless. You’re no longer explaining yourself to be understood. You are being read like an open book, by a system that was built to honor your entire evolution.
This is not a therapy session. This is soul witnessing.
Part IV: A Real-Life Scenario
One of my clients, let’s call her Meera, once came to me feeling chronically stuck in love. She had tried therapy, astrology, even silent retreats. But it was in our Akashic Reading online that she first sobbed without apology.
Not because I said something magical. But because the Records held her story without shame. They showed her why she attracted unavailable partners. They revealed her karmic tie to a past lover from 5 lifetimes ago.
And when she saw it, she cried. Not out of sadness. Out of validation. Out of release.
She later told me, “This was the first time I felt seen for my soul, not just my symptoms.”
That is the power of soul-level vulnerability.
Part V: Why Familiar People Sometimes Trigger More Defense
With people you know:
- There’s history.
- There’s roles.
- There’s unspoken expectations.
Even the kindest partner can become a container of your old self.
You might fear being too much. You might fear hurting them. Or worse, you fear being met with solutions when all you need is silence and space.
Now compare that with a sacred Akashic session:
- No need to justify.
- No advice unless invited.
- No “fix it” energy. Just clarity, compassion, and context.
Part VI: Akashic Reading Meaning and Misconceptions
Before we go deeper, let’s debunk a myth.
Akashic Reading is not prediction. It’s not even always about past lives.
It’s about reading the energetic blueprint of your now, your soul agreements, and your next best aligned step.
You don’t need to be psychic to become an Akashic Reader either. In fact, many of my students in the Akashic Reading Course were total beginners. Some found me Googling “Akashic Readers in India” or “Akashic Reading free online.”
But it was their openness and curiosity that led them here.
That’s all it takes.
Part VII: A New Way to Relate to Vulnerability
What if we stopped calling it “weakness”? What if we started calling it soul courage?
You opening your heart to a stranger is not escapism. It’s sacred strategy. Sometimes, it’s safer to heal outside the system that hurt you.
And sometimes, a stranger becomes your spiritual mirror, showing you truths no one else dared to.
Part VIII: So, What Do You Do With This?
- Book that Akashic Reading session.
- Journal on the questions that scare you.
- Notice who you feel safest opening up to.
And most importantly? Don’t apologize for how you process.
Your vulnerability is not a liability. It’s your access point to soul evolution.
Final Words: Vulnerability is a Portal
When you find yourself opening up to someone who just “gets it” — honor it. When your soul wants to speak, don’t silence it because it didn’t happen in the “right” relationship.
Sometimes, the Akashic field offers exactly the space you need to say what you never dared to.
And if you’re ready to experience that level of clarity, presence, and soul validation — you know where to find me.
I’m Neha Singla. Not just an Akashic Reader near you, but your soul journey facilitator.
And in this space? You don’t have to hold back. You just have to show up.
P.S. Want to learn how to hold space like this for others? Explore my ICPEM + NITI Aayog backed Akashic Reading Course. And if you’re curious about my Akashic Oracle Cards (India’s first!), they’re now available online in India, UK, and US!
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Let vulnerability be your strength. Let the Records hold your truth.
Neha Singla
Soul Journey Expert | Akashic Mentor | India’s First Akashic Oracle Creator